Valentine’s Day can be a painful time if you’re going through a divorce.

But I want to tell all the single ladies, “Ladies, celebrate the most important love affair of your life — the one you have with yourself.”

I know: “Dear Abby: Should I really be having a love affair with myself?”

I’m not Abby or Ann Landers, but I’ll tell you here, the answer is a resounding, “Yes!”

Girl, you’re the most important person in your life. Without you in the picture, there is no life, that you know of. Wherever you go, there YOU are. You’re the one person you can’t live without. So have a healthy appreciation for the only person who never can or ever will leave you.

I’m not talking about being a narcissist. I’m talking about being a realist. I’m talking about having a healthy self respect. Start treating yourself like royalty so the next lucky person in your life will do the same.

As proven in this picture, every girl should enjoy the thrill of receiving one of those famous Blue Bags from Tiffany, New York. If no one’s ever sent you one, here’s your assignment: Send one to yourself.

There’s no time like Valentine’s Day to experience the love. Go online and see what they have. It’s pretty neat stuff. They deliver. And they’re fast!